Wedding Speech Toast – Make it Perfect!

It may not sound right to say it but the wedding ceremony is usually a boring event. Of course, all the family, relatives and friends of the bride and groom are very happy and looking forward to seeing them exchange vows but it cannot be denied that throughout the ceremony, there would be a lot of people yawning or even sleeping. Not only may the priest’s voice be boring and serious, but the ceremony itself is a formal proceeding. This is why many look forward to the reception. Aside from the delectable dishes to be served, the reception is the primary opportunity to dance, socialize with other guests, and listen to a few who will give their speeches and toasts.

This is also why pressure is on those who will be speaking. Everyone is looking forward to hearing what they have to say and they expect to be entertained and touched at the same time. Here are some tips to follow and things to avoid when giving a wedding speech toast:

1. First, remember that preparation is vital. Before you even begin writing down your speech, decide how to deliver your toast. Will you have a copy and read it word for word? Will you have notes to glance at for reference? Or will you just wing it? I would not recommend for you to wing it. Do not get me wrong though, because there are many cases wherein a wedding speech toast sounded totally spontaneous yet turned out to be great. However, such cases usually involve naturally-gifted speakers. Furthermore, chances are these speakers have made and practiced rehearsing mental notes as well. Bottom line is that you should prepare for your speech and practice it well.

2. Second, decide how you will write your toast. If you are gifted with writing and speaking skills, then big words will not sound as if you are “trying hard” to impress if you can read them well with conviction. Just try not to sound old-fashioned and prim. You are making a toast, do not forget and not reading a book report.

3. Entertain! As I have mentioned, the wedding ceremony is the chance to get informal. Crack some jokes and funny remarks about the couple. Be sincere and charming at the same time.